This is one of the lessons in book of 7 habits by steven covey, why i am writing about it today is because i saw a very similar post in the blog of happiness project and the lady has approached the issue in such a beautiful way that i am totally moved.
She advice's to acknowledge someone's feeling of anger, irritation,or reluctance; instead name the feeling as other person's point of view. Its like when someone is complaining about something, dont try to prove them wrong rather understand there problem and help them resolve it.
For example, If someone is telling you that he/she feels lonely and wish if people would pay more attention to him/her. Rather them proving them how much attention people have given them earlier , just understand and give them a treat of your time.
I think she has a point and the best part is that you feel nice using this approach rather then arguing and proving a point.Lets learn to jump to solutions....i like it :)
She advice's to acknowledge someone's feeling of anger, irritation,or reluctance; instead name the feeling as other person's point of view. Its like when someone is complaining about something, dont try to prove them wrong rather understand there problem and help them resolve it.
For example, If someone is telling you that he/she feels lonely and wish if people would pay more attention to him/her. Rather them proving them how much attention people have given them earlier , just understand and give them a treat of your time.
I think she has a point and the best part is that you feel nice using this approach rather then arguing and proving a point.Lets learn to jump to solutions....i like it :)
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